Upgrade etcd libraries to v3.5.13

Add otelgrpc.WithMessageEvents(otelgrpc.ReceivedEvents, otelgrpc.SentEvents) to tracing options due to open-telemetry/opentelemetry-go-contrib#3964

Kubernetes-commit: 3e5b03eb433ee359782f5aa6e9368ab2a0d0370c

go.mod

@@ -8,13 +8,13 @@ require (
 	github.com/emicklei/go-restful/v3 v3.11.0
 	github.com/gogo/protobuf v1.3.2
 	github.com/stretchr/testify v1.8.4
-	google.golang.org/grpc v1.58.3
-	k8s.io/api v0.0.0-20240423013409-039b247b85af
-	k8s.io/apimachinery v0.0.0-20240423013216-bb8822152cab
-	k8s.io/apiserver v0.0.0-20240423014832-359c50ed0b4d
-	k8s.io/client-go v0.0.0-20240423013650-47f558294cb9
-	k8s.io/component-base v0.0.0-20240423014306-d7aa2276f5bb
-	k8s.io/cri-api v0.0.0-20240423020229-ba9ddcf8343f
+	google.golang.org/grpc v1.59.0
+	k8s.io/api v0.0.0
+	k8s.io/apimachinery v0.0.0
+	k8s.io/apiserver v0.0.0
+	k8s.io/client-go v0.0.0
+	k8s.io/component-base v0.0.0
+	k8s.io/cri-api v0.0.0
 	k8s.io/klog/v2 v2.120.1
 	k8s.io/utils v0.0.0-20230726121419-3b25d923346b
 )
@@ -58,3 +58,14 @@ require (
 	sigs.k8s.io/structured-merge-diff/v4 v4.4.1 // indirect
 	sigs.k8s.io/yaml v1.3.0 // indirect
 )
+
+replace (
+	k8s.io/api => ../api
+	k8s.io/apimachinery => ../apimachinery
+	k8s.io/apiserver => ../apiserver
+	k8s.io/client-go => ../client-go
+	k8s.io/component-base => ../component-base
+	k8s.io/cri-api => ../cri-api
+	k8s.io/kms => ../kms
+	k8s.io/kubelet => ../kubelet
+)