deps(NODE-5446): bump dependencies again for v6

[baileympearson]

Description

In an interesting twist, upgrading dev dependencies again...no longer causes our aws tests to fail? 🤔

This PR basically updates all the dependencies Warren updated as a part of #3801. There are a few version differences (which could explain why the tests pass here but failed on Warren's initial PR). The aws tests pass consistently for me - I've run them 4 times now with none of the failures we saw on the initial dependency bump. I'm inclined to call this work "resolved", since I don't think it's worthwhile investigating why the dependency bump initially caused tests to fail if they pass consistently now.

This work includes a temporary fix to the npm version issues. We can either block this on Durran's CI fixes or just merge this and have Durran remove it when he implements the permanent fix.

What is changing?

Bumps the dependencies originally updated in #3801.

Is there new documentation needed for these changes?

What is the motivation for this change?

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• Ran npm run check:lint script
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• Changes are covered by tests
• New TODOs have a related JIRA ticket

[durran]

Just need to resolve the npm fix conflicts.