fix(button): show correct activated state for ios

[brandyscarney]

Pull request checklist

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• Tests for the changes have been added (for bug fixes / features)
• Docs have been reviewed and added / updated if needed (for bug fixes / features)
  • Some docs updates need to be made in the ionic-docs repo, in a separate PR. See the contributing guide for details.
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Pull request type

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• Bugfix
• Feature
• Code style update (formatting, renaming)
• Refactoring (no functional changes, no api changes)
• Build related changes
• Documentation content changes
• Other (please describe):

What is the current behavior?

• The activated state does not show up on iOS while hovering
• Outline buttons in a toolbar aren't showing activated state at all

Issue URL: fixes #22468

What is the new behavior?

• Display activated states for buttons when pressing while hovering
• Show the activated state for outline buttons in a toolbar (updated to match what an outline button with color was already doing)
• While fixing the above there were some issues that popped up, resolved all found issues

Does this introduce a breaking change?

• Yes
• No

Other information

The following tests should show no differences:

• button/basic
• button/clear
• button/outline

The following tests will show fixes where activated was not being applied at all for outline buttons, regardless of hover state. I made edits to these tests on my branch in order to check more use cases, so these diffs won't show up in screenshot comparisons:

test	main	branch
toolbar/basic
toolbar/colors
themes/default
themes/oceanic
themes/vibrant
themes/dark

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