fix(cli): cannot set progress via app or user configuration

[mrgrain]

In v2.172.0 (via aws/aws-cdk@069b72c) we accidentally broke the "bar" stack activity progress output mode (*). Turns out no-one noticed.

In v2.1002.0 (via 0d9912f) this got unintentionally fixed and the --progress was honored again. However the accidental fix didn't consider options set by app or user configuration. Again this went unnoticed for a while, until this week a user alerted my to the issue on the cdk.dev Slack.

This PR fixes progress set via app or user configuration.

(*) This line is the culprit:
aws/aws-cdk@069b72c#diff-d03bd87f399ba5824d5442aa691df8b6f08f4f8a3848cfc8492c3d52fab5e48bR105
Previously "default" verbosity was a 0, which meant verbose = 0 and later on !verbose would turn into true.
The change caused verbose to be a value different than 0 and thus turning !verbose to be false and the code would always assume we are in verbose logging mode and must use the "events" progress.

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Project coverage is 85.05%. Comparing base (3791941) to head (6cf585f).

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