Support specifying quote and escape in Csv WriterBuilder

[alamb]

Is your feature request related to a problem or challenge? Please describe what you are trying to do.
In DataFusion apache/datafusion#8351 we are adding support to specify the escaping and quote characters used for CSV reading.

It turns out that the Arrow CSV writer does not support specifying the escape and quoting characters

Describe the solution you'd like
I would like the following in the CSV WriterBuilder:

• with_escape (analogous to ReaderBuilder::with_escape )
• with_quote (analogous to ReaderBuilder::with_quote )

Describe alternatives you've considered

Additional context

[tustvold]

This should be a relatively straightforward first issue.

I would highlight though that "escape" is advised against by the CSV library we use, and we should probably highlight this in any documentation - https://docs.rs/csv/latest/csv/struct.WriterBuilder.html#method.escape

In some variants of CSV, quotes are escaped using a special escape character like \ (instead of escaping quotes by doubling them).
By default, writing these idiosyncratic escapes is disabled, and is only used when double_quote is disabled.

[my-vegetable-has-exploded]

I'd like to have a try.