Use apache/arrow-java not apache/arrow in pom.xml

[kou]

Describe the enhancement requested

There are some apache/arrow in pom.xml:

$ grep apache/arrow **/pom.xml
bom/pom.xml:    <connection>scm:git:https://github.com/apache/arrow.git</connection>
bom/pom.xml:    <developerConnection>scm:git:https://github.com/apache/arrow.git</developerConnection>
bom/pom.xml:    <url>https://github.com/apache/arrow/tree/${project.scm.tag}</url>
bom/pom.xml:    <url>https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues</url>
pom.xml:    <connection>scm:git:https://github.com/apache/arrow.git</connection>
pom.xml:    <developerConnection>scm:git:https://github.com/apache/arrow.git</developerConnection>
pom.xml:    <url>https://github.com/apache/arrow/tree/${project.scm.tag}</url>
pom.xml:    <url>https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues</url>
pom.xml:                <arg>-Xplugin:ErrorProne -XepExcludedPaths:.*/(target/generated-source|format/src/main/java/org/apache/arrow/flatbuf)/.*</arg>